Okay, this has been an *interesting* process already. I go through the blog set up, no problem. I'm tooling along nicely, adding links to kinky info sites, getting my reading list set up, thinking, "this is EASY. I can do this."Then I go to view my blog and realize I fucked up major early on and didn't notice it. Right there, at the top of my page is the email addy I associated with the blog. And it has my full name. Not just that, the state I live in, just in case, you know, my FULL NAME isn't enough.
Jesus Christ on a bike !!
I had no idea THAT would happen !! So now I have to got to the help forums, and find out wtf to do. And yes, I know I could have deleted it and started a new one, but I'd just spent time adding all those links, and I'm stubborn, and and . . .
The help forum had actual help (nice !) and I managed to fix the issue. But it did require me to THINK before I'd really woken up (drag !).
Which segues into my first blog topic: How out front are you about your kink? If the above had happened to you, would you have panicked like I did? Do you have a lot of kinky friends, or are you so private about your kink, no one knows save for a handful of online kink friends??? What would you do if you were outed?
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10 years ago
Hello Miss Kinky. I like your pink colors. The post was very funny, too. I am very private about anything kinky. I'm even a bit nervous about posting on this blog.
ReplyDeleteI understand, sweet. And welcome to my blog !!
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ReplyDeleteTo answer your question, how out front am I..well honestly I'm very open and honest about my kinks and lifestyle. I don't advertise at work or anything but, I won't lie if someone asks or makes a comment. I'm as open as I can be. As to having kinky friends most of my friends are lifestyle. I don't seem to have many normal friends anymore and I think that is due to not relating to them well. Its even hard to relate to most of my lifestyle friends as a switch, and even harder in relationships. I have no fear of being outed. I would honestly acknowledge it and shrug it off.
ReplyDeleteWow, Impish. I could not imagine that. I have friends and family that could not handle the information.
ReplyDeleteI think part of it is that I am in business in a small town in the middle of the Bible Belt.
I treasure my friends who can handle my kink, and the ones who I have met online who have become part of my BDSM "family" as it were.
When your family already has written you off kinky, you tend not to care. Mostly I don't care what people think anymore, at least those people. Course given my background and mindset right now. I don't know it I care about anything anymore.
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